Expectations

Expectations are the mother of disappointments....this ...I knew always,but trust me its so difficult to adapt and follow.Take the example of today, I expected that he would understand that I wanted to be at the race to cheer my friend, but..what happened? was we all are at home, watching a movie marathon, yet again..If I know this I would have atleast gone myself,..why is that men are so insensitive to their women"s feelings, expectations.Can they really not understand and anticipate what we want, or do they try to show superiority and dominance? With Indian men I can imagine that it can be a case of the latter. This makes me compromise that may be I should have not expected him to take me to the race.compromise, compromise,compromise, this is one word that every Indian woman will be familiar with. All their life they are forced to compromise. Before marriage to what their parents want, and after marriage what their husbands and in laws want.Why is this always like this?Does anyone have an answer to this?

Abhi na jao chod kar

This song, abhi na jao chod kar...reminds me of one moment any number of times i listen to it.Mohd Rafi and Asha Bhosle. I was introduced to this song in my car,on the road, by my best friend. It was evening, I had to go home, I went to drop my friend home, but my friend came half way along with me...why?so that may be I could listen to this wonderful song. I know that my friend meant each word of this song and sang it for me.Although I did not stay back, this moment comes to mind whenever I listen to this song, whereever in the world I am.
Abhi na jao chod kar, ki dil mera bhara nahi....wish I could have reacted more ...